## Build on Coveillance, Not Surveilalnce
The greatest threat to a business embracing tracking is customer distrust. Customers fear a one-way "panopticon, where ‘they’ know about us but we know nothing about them." The solution, Kelly argues, is to build systems based on **coveillance**, or mutual, symmetrical watching. He uses the analogy of a small town where everyone watches everyone else, leading to a system of mutual accountability and benefit.
**Lesson:** Your business model must be built on transparency. Be open about what you track and why. Give users control over their data and show them how you are using it to their benefit. The most trusted companies will be those that allow customers to "watch the watchers."
## Making Tracking Worth It -- Personalization
Customers will only tolerate being tracked if they receive tangible, valuable benefits in return. The single most powerful benefit is personalization. People are willing to trade their data for services that treat them as unique individuals rather than generic averages.
As Kelly bluntly puts it, **"Vanity trumps privacy."** He explains the direct trade-off:
> “Greater personalization requires greater transparency. Absolute personalization... requires absolute transparency. If I prefer to remain private and opaque... then I must accept I will be treated generically, without regard to my specific particulars.”
**Lesson:** Your value proposition must be crystal clear. Use the data you collect to create hyper-personalized products, recommendations, and experiences that are so good, customers feel the exchange is more than fair.